Obituary for Betty Swecker Abbott
Betty Swecker Abbott, 89, widow of Robert W. (Bob) Abbott, died peacefully on August 14, 2019 in Bedford, Virginia. She is survived by a sister, Judy Swecker Riddick, of Franklin, Virginia, a brother, James L. (Jim) Swecker and sister-in-law, Ruby, of Monterey, Virginia, a sister-in-law, Ann Swecker, of Stuarts Draft, Virgina, a sister-in-law, Betty A. Smith, of Bedford, a son, Robert William (Bobby) Abbott II and his wife, Lesia, of Hiwassee, Virginia, two daughters, Jenny Abbott Makolandra and her husband, Joe, of Manassas, Virginia, and Carole Abbott Fischbein and her husband, Gary, of Raleigh, NC. She is also survived by seven grandchildren, Rob Abbott (Sara), Jessica Duncan (C.J.), Chelsea Duncan (Bill), Casey Makolandra, Laura Makolandra, Alec Fischbein and Sophia Fischbein; two great-grandchildren, Kaden Duncan and Waylon Abbott; and many nieces and nephews. Besides her husband of 60 years, she was also predeceased by her parents, Jennings Judy Swecker and Maria Tate Sterrett Swecker, four siblings and spouses, William S. (Bill) Swecker, George R. Swecker (Nancy), Frances Swecker Crown (Jim), Robert T. Swecker, and brother-in-law, Robert W. Riddick.
The middle child of seven, Betty was born and raised in Blue Grass, Virginia on Maple Grove Farm and then later in Richmond where she lived with a beloved aunt, Genoa “Jinks” Swecker Slaven. After graduating from Thomas Jefferson High School in Richmond, Betty attended the College of William & Mary. Following college, she worked for Army Intelligence in Mexico City and San Salvador for several years. After returning to the U.S., Betty worked for VEPCO in Richmond where she met her future husband, Bob. Following their wedding in 1958, Betty and Bob moved to Charlottesville, where the couple’s three children were born. They moved to Pulaski County in 1967 where they raised their kids and opened a number of businesses including Maple Garden Apartments in Dublin, which Betty managed for years, and the Steer House restaurant in Pulaski, which served the community for over 40 years. In 1998, Betty and Bob retired to Bedford.
Betty was a lifelong Presbyterian and fulfilled the duties of Sunday school teacher and Women’s Circle leader in various churches throughout her life. Due to her passion for education and reading, Betty was a volunteer teacher and board member for Literacy Volunteers of America – New River Valley for many years. Her childhood love of playing games led to her introduction to bridge in college and she eventually achieved the rank of Life Master in American Contract Bridge. Additionally, she had a keen ability to make everyone around her laugh – whether she intended to or not!
Among her many motherly and grandmotherly expressions of love, proofreading was perhaps her most unique talent. Those of us who knew and loved our sassy little grammarian endured years of her corrections – aloud and on paper. We appreciated her devotion to our language acquisition and promise to pass down all the knowledge she drilled in…er, bestowed on…us. Get your heavenly red pen out, Mom. You can start marking this!
Betty resided at the Bedford County Nursing Home for the last two years, and deepest appreciation is extended to the staff for their loving care. In accordance with Betty’s wishes, her body was donated to the Virginia State Anatomical Program for research. A memorial service will be held in Pulaski at a later date. In lieu of flowers, please consider a donation in her memory to Bedford Centra Hospice, 1621 Whitfield Drive, Bedford, VA 24523 or First Presbyterian Church, P.O. Box 824, Pulaski, VA 24301.
Tim and Tamara Gress
August 17, 2019 @ 3:15 pm
So sorry, Rob. I’m sure she was very proud of you!! Hang in there and we’ll keep you and .family in our prayers
August 17, 2019 @ 5:20 pm
Sincerest condolences to the Abbott family- As one of her daughter Carole’s college roommates, I can say that we all loved it when Mama Abbott came to visit. We were guaranteed treats and a lot of laughs. I loved it when she would send her local paper to Carole with all the grammar, misspellings, etc underlined in red! She was a doll and full of personality! Her coffee cake recipe is still an all time favorite at my house. Prayers for you all during this sad time.
Wayne & Martha Coake
August 17, 2019 @ 7:11 pm
So sorry for your loss, Rob. Our prayers are with you and the family.
August 17, 2019 @ 9:00 pm
So sorry for your loss sweet Jenny!
Praying for you and your family…
Miss your smiling face.
Laura Ball Makolandra Corn
August 18, 2019 @ 3:19 am
My Dear Sweet Jenny Mak, Joe Mak, Laura & Casey, we are extremely sorry for yet another sad loss in your family. We are sending our love, prayers, and most sincere condolences from South Carolina. After many hard days of recognizing that your beautiful and remarkable “Betty” had already said her good-byes without even realizing it ~ having to witness her disappearance in her eyes, I am hoping that you might all find a refreshing peace in your hearts that she is finally home with her Maker and her great love. What a lovely family they made.
God Bless you all.
Susie Brillheart Buckley
August 18, 2019 @ 6:05 pm
Sending love to all of the family and friends. I have many memories of her from my childhood. She was a beautiful person. I loved going to your house for sleepovers. Your parents were good people and loved by many.